Are Shih Tzus Good Family Dogs? What to Know
Thinking about a Shih Tzu for your household? Here is an honest look at how they do as family dogs, from someone who has lived with them for years.
The short answer: yes
Shih Tzus were bred for one job: to be companions. They were the cherished lap dogs of Chinese royalty, and centuries of that breeding show. They are friendly, affectionate, and genuinely people-oriented, and they tend to bond with the whole family rather than picking just one person. For most households, including families with children, they make wonderful companions.
What makes them a good fit
- Affectionate and gentle. They love being with their people and are perfectly happy to be a lap dog.
- Sociable. They usually welcome multiple family members and get along with most other dogs they meet.
- Adaptable size. They do well in an apartment or a house and do not need a big yard, just companionship and a bit of daily activity.
- Big personalities. They are playful and full of character without being hyper or hard to handle.
A few honest things to keep in mind
- They are small. With very young children, supervise. A toddler can accidentally hurt a little dog, and a dog handled too roughly can get frustrated and want to retreat. Teach kids to be gentle and to give the dog its space.
- They want to be with you. Mostly a plus, but a Shih Tzu left alone all day can get lonely or anxious. They are a poor fit for a home where no one is ever around.
- The coat is a commitment. That lovely hair needs regular brushing and grooming. (Here is the grooming kit I use to do it at home.)
Are Shih Tzus good with other pets?
Generally, yes. The breed has a reputation for getting along with most dogs, and many Shih Tzus live happily alongside cats too, especially when they are introduced early and calmly.
Frequently asked questions
Are Shih Tzus good with kids?
Yes. They are gentle and patient and usually great with children. With very young kids, supervise and teach gentle handling, since Shih Tzus are small.
Are Shih Tzus good for first-time owners?
Often yes. They are affectionate, adaptable, and not overly demanding on exercise, though the coat does need regular grooming.
Do Shih Tzus get along with other dogs and cats?
Generally yes. The breed is known for getting along with most dogs, and many live happily with cats, especially with early, calm introductions.
This article is written from one dog lover to another and is for general information only.






